Friends

What are friends?

people you can rely on right? a friend is a person you can tell your every secret to, and they will keep it to themselves, right?

someone who will go out of their way to make you happy.

who will lie just to spare a detail you dont need to know.

who will, it seems, hurt you now, to help you become a better person later. and not badly, just bad enough to change. because a true friend wants to help, not hurt.

Some people dont understand that. they think that by defying their friend when they dont want the help given (but need it) they are in the right. They will avoid, not listen, and run away from what they dont want to hear.

You shouldnt try to change your friend- just help. And sometimes, a friend wants to stand on their own feet, and thats awesome! let them figure it out, but be there to pick them up if they stumble. hopefully they wont. but there is always the possiblity.

signed, a friend